By Daniel Yoder
Pride was the first sin to destroy the calm of eternity. It was pride that cast Lucifer from heaven and it was pride that cost our first parents their place in Paradise. Pride is the first sin to enter a mans heart and the last to leave. No sin is more offensive to God than the sin of pride. Pride has been referred to as the “complete anti-God state of mind.” It militates against God’s authority, God’s law, and God’s rule. This is why the Bible equates rebellion with witchcraft (1 Sam.15:23). Pride assaults God’s throne and asserts its independence in an attempt to dislodge God as the Sovereign of the universe.
God and pride are like oil and water-they don’t mix! Pride is dogmatic in its antagonism to God and God is absolute in His opposition to pride. The creator never has and never will compromise with pride.
Humility is the foundation of all virtue, but pride is the essence of all sin. The world system operates on the basis of pride for all that is in the world is lust and pride (1 John 2:16). Pride and lust are the root sins from which all other sins spring. Pride is the mother of evil.
God detests pride. He even hates a proud look (Prov.6:16-17). God’s loathing of pride is unalterable, for “Everyone that is proud in heart is an abomination to the Lord” (Prov.16:5). But why does God hate pride so fiercely?
Pride is Satanic!
Never forget that God did not make the devil. Lucifer only became the devil when he arrogantly became infatuated with himself. Yes, Lucifer is a created being. God said,”Thou wast perfect in thy ways from the day thou was created, till iniquity was found in thee” (Ezekiel.28:15). This beautiful, powerful, intelligent, and gifted cherub fell from his perfect estate when his heart was lifted up because of his beauty and brightness (vs.17). No longer was he willing to be subservient to the Creator. Staggering pride was to blame for the tragedy in heaven.
“How art thou fallen from heaven, O Lucifer, son of morning!…For thou has said in thine heart, I will ascend into heaven, I will exalt my throne…I will sit also upon the mount…I will ascend above the heights…I will be the most High” (Is.14:12-14).
Self-will displaces God’s will, and the devil emerges. I’ve heard it said, Man is never more like the devil than when he is full of self-will.” The Bible strictly forbids placing a novice in leadership, “lest being lifted up with pride he fall into condemnation of the devil” (1 Tim. 3:6) It was pride that caused Lucifer’s fall and subsequent condemnation. The snare of pride a deadly peril to which new converts to Christ should never be willfully subjected. Nothing does more to set a person out of the devil’s reach than humility.
Pride Spawns A prayer-less Life!
Once Solomon had completed the Temple, the Lord instructed Israel on the proper way to approach Him in times of judgment. If the heavens withheld rain on account of their sins, or disobedience caused God to send pestilence among His people, then they were to pray toward the Lord’s house. But even before they prayed, turned from their wicked ways, or sought the face of God they needed to first humble themselves (2 Chronicles.7:14). God required the people who were called by His name to humble themselves before they prayed or repented, So why does humility precede prayer? Why does humility come before turning from wicked ways?
The reason humility precedes prayer is because there can be no real prayer without humility. Proverbs speaks of the man who brazenly turns his ear from the law, “Even his prayer shall be an abomination” (28:9). The lack of truly humble prayer is the very first sign of pride. It has been said, “God’s power will never fall until we do.” Proud people don’t pray. In fact, the only people that do pray are those who need God, know they need God, and can’t go on without God. Humility is the altar on which God wishes us to offer Him sacrifices.
Pride Brings Conflict
Why are there so many splintered relationships, so many broken marriages, and so many church splits? The Scripture gives us the short answer, “Only by pride cometh contention” (Proverbs 13:10)
Just as surely as pride erects a barrier between us and God, it also builds a wall between us and others. Whereas love seeks to build a bridge, pride seeks to erect a wall.
Pride can keep you from apologizing when you’ve been wrong. Pride can cause you to defend yourself. Pride can cause you to look down on others. If you allow it, pride can rob you of the most treasured relationships in life. “He that is of a proud heart stirreth up strife” (Proverbs 28:25).
Humbling ourselves is the only way to get the roof off toward God and the walls down toward our fellow man. Once offenses have been committed, whether intentional or unintentional, they must be dealt with. “I was wrong, I am sorry, will you forgive me?” These are healing words that only a humble soul will use. Whenever you find a man willing to humble himself before God and man, you have found a man who will be exalted, because “humility comes before honor.”
Pride Results In Gossip!
“Thou shalt hide them…from the pride of man thou shalt keep them…from the strife of tongues” (Psalms 31:20). Evil speaking, slander, and gossip are the direct result of pride. This comes as no surprise since the word “devil” comes from the word diabolos which means slanderer. Thomas Watson one of the Puritans said, “He that receives a slander carries the devil in his ear and he that commits slander carries the devil on his tongue.” Where Satan doesn’t go personally, he sends a critic.
I heard a Sunday School teacher who gave the lesson on the parable of the Pharisee and the Publican. The Pharisee stood and prayed with himself thanking God he was not like the other men: “adulterers, extortioners, and Publicans,” The Sunday School teacher really blasted the Pharisee because of his proud, condemning attitude. He was glorying in the fact that he was better than common sinners-”not as other men.” As the class ended the teacher said, “Students, lets bow our heads now and thank the Lord we’re not like that Pharisee!”
Before a man can look down on another he must first assume he is better than the person he is speaking against. A proud man is suspicious of everyone else. A humble man is more suspicious of his own heart than anyone one else. The proud heart will detect defects in others before himself. A humble soul sees the evil in his own heart before he sees evil in others.
Gossip is anything you would say about someone that you wouldn’t say if they were standing in front of you. The only reason character assassination, or making an unfavorable comparison, is to exalt one’s own self. Before speaking against a fellow human being one must first establish himself as a judge. This maligning character can only be explained in terms of pride. The connection between pride and slander is clearly seen in Psalm 101, “Whoso privily slandereth his neighbor, him will I cut off: him that hath a high look and a proud heart will I not suffer” (Vs.5)
Pride Is Deceptive!
A young man responded at the invitation and told his pastor that he had come to rededicate his life to the Lord. The pastor replied, “Wonderful! Just kneel here at the altar and confess all your sins to God.” To which the young man replied, “ Pastor, I can’t think of any sins to confess.” The pastor then said, “Brother just guess at it.” And you know what? The young man got it on the first try! Pride is not just thinking we are better than others, it is thinking we are better than we are and that we have no sin in our lives.
Pride is the disposition to exalt self, get above others. And conceal our defects. Ever since the fall, man has had the tendency to confess someone else’s sins instead of his own. This is hardly surprising since the heart of man is “deceitful above all things” (Jeremiah 17:9). And the reason man’s heart is so deceitful is because of inborn haughtiness. “Thy terribleness hath deceived thee, and the pride of thine heart” (Jeremiah 49:16). Contrary to popular thinking. We are not good people who happen to do bad things… we are sinners through and through. And it is the deceptive nature of pride which brings such reluctance to admit our sins. This is why we can’t admit we have a demon and need deliverance.
Pride Makes Us Boast Falsely!
Samson killed a lion with his bare hands and didn’t even tell his parents. Charles Spurgeon once stated that if a modern day Christian so much as killed a mouse he would publish it in the gospel gazette! Man may be reluctant to acknowledge his wrongs, but most are quick to publicize their accomplishments. “Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness” (Proverbs 20:6).
The Bible warns us about thinking more highly of ourselves than we ought. No man has a right to inflate a view of himself. Under the influence of pride a man puts on the air of a master. He is more likely to instruct others than inquire for himself. A humble Christian wants help from everybody, but the spiritually proud thinks everybody wants his help.
The proud man believes he has accomplished what God and others have accomplished only through his life or ministry. He seeks credit for things which he cannot rightly take the credit. Talent, intellect, abilities, health, and life itself are gifts from God, not from a proud prideful man!
The Bible says it is of God’s mercy that we are not consumed. It is God’s love that we have been drawn to Him. It is because of His everlasting arms being under us that we are kept. It is by His faith that we are saved. It is by His blood that we are cleansed. It is by His righteousness that we are clothed. It is by His power that we are kept. It is by His grace that we are sustained. It is by His intercession that we are delivered. It is by His goodness that we are led to repentance. It is by His indwelling Spirit that we are filled. All that God has for His people is from the Father, all through His Son, and all is by the Holy Spirit. Of what can we boast?
In Charles Spurgeons messages he tells of a powerful sermon that he preached that when he was finished the devil whispered to him, “That was a fine sermon. You preached magnificently!” For a moment he agreed with the devil. Leaving the pulpit, a deacon met him and said, “Pastor, that was a masterpiece.” Spurgeon interrupted and said, “You’re to late. The devil told me a few moments ago.”
Pride Brings Shame!
Culture is the externalization of religion. So when culture calls good evil and evil good it indicates corrupt religion dominates that society. Never doubt that men worship something, if not the true God, then they will worship something else, or themselves. One of our Presidents proclaimed June as gay pride month. I believe Biblically speaking it should have been name “gay shame month.” Our government and society glories in things of which it should be ashamed. Even some who claim to be servants of the Most High God acceptthis abomination.
The Bible tells us there was three factors that contributed to the sin of Sodom and Gomorrah. “This was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom, pride, fulness of bread, and abundance of idleness’ (Ezekiel 16:49). I would have you note carefully that pride was the foundation from which homosexuality sprang. “When pride cometh, then cometh shame” (Proverbs 29:23”.
After his journey through the valley of humiliation Nebuchadnezzar realized, “Those that walk in pride he is able to abase” (Daniel 4:37). He surely learned the proverb, “A man’s pride shall bring him low” (Proverbs 29:23).
Pride Precedes a Fall!
Those who built the Titanic pronounced it the great unsinkable ship. With boldness and confidence they boasted of the great safety this vessel afforded. But on its maiden voyage the unsinkable ship sank. The Titanic mentality of invincibility sets the stage for collapse. “Before destruction the heart of man is haughty” (Proverbs 18:12).
Repeatedly, the Scripture warns of pride precipitating a fall. “Pride goeth before destruction, and a haughty spirit before a fall” (Proverbs 16:18). “ The lofty looks of man shall be humbled, and the haughtiness of men shall be bowed down, and the LORD alone shall be exalted” (Isaiah 2:11”. Uzziah was greatly blessed and marvelously helped, “till he was strong. But when he was strong, his heart was lifted up to his destruction” (2 Chronicles 26:15-16). He transgressed by entering the temple to offer incense on the altar. When confronted by the priests, Uzziah became furious. While he was holding the censer in his hand God smote him and leprosy rose upon his forehead. He lost the throne and was a leper the rest of his life.
God not only dwells in the High and Holy place. He also dwells with him “that is of a contrite and humble spirit” (Isaiah 57:15). The man who sits nearest the dust sits nearest to heaven. It is in the valley humiliation that leads to the mount of transfiguration. He that is low need fear no fall.
No wonder Andrew Murray said, “Welcome everything that helps you on toward humility.”
Listing the sins of pride could go on and on. Its pervasiveness cannot be overstated.
Haughtiness, arrogance, conceit, inordinate self-esteem, and vainglory are as common as the air we breathe. Pride is a sin to be hated, a sin to be confessed, a sin to mourn over, a sin to flee, a sin to fight against, a sin we cannot allow in our churches or our homes. Pride must die, or nothing of heaven can live in you. God resists the proud, but He gives grace to the humble.
Humility is the royal insignia that marks God’s true people even though it is the saint’s hardest conflict. The first step toward becoming humble is realizing we have a spirit of pride in us. And then we must take the witness stand against ourselves and plead,“GUILTY AS CHARGED.” Continually, we must bring pride to the foot of the Cross to be washed away by the blood of Jesus. Surveying the wondrous Cross surely makes it easier to pour contempt on all our pride. Even though pride is hated by God, the powerful blood and the name of Jesus can cleanse it away. If pride is the evil of evils, then humility is the virtue of virtues. Like the pearl of a great price, it is worth selling all we have to obtain. Humility is our responsibility. Humility is a choice, and so is pride.
If you plead guilty to being full of pride take the time, AND IN THE NAME OF JESUS CAST THAT “DEMON” OUT!